Things aren't always planned. Some things just 'happen'; Bad or good. We just have to figure out what to do with that knowledge once we have it.
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Used the white-board with the hubby today and it went unbelievably well.
So how it works is that the orange are his top 5 problems and the lime green are my top 5.
The bottom area is what we can do for the other to help fix or at least alleviate the problem.
It was based off of the idea of affirm, accept, criticize, control; where the spouse has listed things they obviously need help with and what can we do to make it better?
Anyway, we're giving it a shot. Things always work themselves out and I'm sure we'll succeed. :)
